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3 in a relationship (marriage)!

Three in a relationship (marriage)! Recently, there has been a rising trend in souring of relationships. The culprit is almost always the third entity in the relationship. It is very important to identify this. I distinctly remember from an old interview of Late Princess Diana where she had said,” We were always three in a marriage. So, it was a bit crowded.” To my young mind as a student, these lines had a great impact. These two lines always come up whenever I hear about disturbed relationships. The most common third entity nowadays is mobile phone. Let’s keep aside the new vocabulary terms-, ghosting, phubbing etc, associated with this. I feel this is the most powerful third entity.  Earlier, extra marital affairs were the leading cause of souring. Now a days, it's the affair with one’s own gadgets – mobile, television, laptops. Gone are the days when couples/ families used to sit together, discuss about each other’s days. Now, everyone is engrossed in checking their mob

Thank You Hong Kong!

Thank You Hong Kong! Dear Readers, From now, I have introduced a feature of gratitude write up to acknowledge and convey my heart felt thanks to my dear readers from the country which tops the list in a week. Last two weeks have witnessed an exponential rise in my readers from a beautiful country Hong Kong . More than 90% of my readers are from Hong Kong. I have visited this country with my family and have fond memories.  It would a great help, if my readers subscribe and can share their thoughts in the comments section- what did you like in my write ups or how it resonated with you. Please feel free to mention your areas of interest, or topics you want to read either in comments section or via an email. FYI (All my books are available in all formats (PB, HB, Audiobook) on all ecommerce sites as well as translation of Momsie Popsie Diary 2.0 Reimagining Life’s Tapestry in Filipino, French, Japanese and Italian in process.) Let’s see which country tops the list next week

Digital amnesia!

Hello beautiful souls,  Whenever I face a writer's block, God shows his presence in various ways. My blog crosses 30500 views with a phenomenal reach of 1392 readers in March only. This week Hongkong tops with 87% readers followed by Singapore with 12%.  Sharing a video on Digital amnesia as a stop gap in between before I bounce back. https://youtu.be/k98nIgFzyM0?si=DuJbqxAEx6g8qQ7W  Love  Juju 

Spam the chat ! Is your message/chat taken as a spam ?

Hello beautiful souls, From now on I am thinking of sharing my blogs and other activities on social media- WhatsApp status, Instagram and Facebook only. Please drop a "hello" if you want to receive as a personal message. “Maa, are you spamming?” my little monk remarked when he saw me share my write up with my family, friends and colleagues. “No, I am sharing the link for ease of the readers. In my circle, one finds it convenient to just click the link and read. It helps me in i ncreasing my blog readership,” I calmly replied.  “Maa, these days everyone’s phone gets loaded with so many greetings, shares and other messages every day. And it’s a humungous task to keep one's mobile memory space free. It takes time to transfer important images/ data into hard disk. It’s just like cleaning the house, cleaning one’s mind, thoughts etc. At times, important messages are missed. I fear your messages may be taken as spam,” he casually replied. Now was the time to adorn my

Book 22# Teenage Love Story Volume 1

 Hello Readers,  My title  Teenage Love Story Volume I   is now live and available for purchase. Sharing link  https://www.ukiyotoindia.com/product-page/teenage-love-story-volume-i Love,  Juju 

ASD -The Ignored Ongoing Pandemic!

Attention Seeking Disorder! (The Ignored Ongoing Pandemic)   For many people, receiving some level of attention – to a greater or lesser degree, depends on one’s individual personality – is a basically pleasurable experience. In general terms, being noticed can instinctively make people feel good, as it provides us with validation. However, when a person constantly craves the attention of others, and that need is affecting their thoughts, decisions and behaviour, they may be dealing with Attention Seeking Disorder (ASD), a part of spectrum of Histrionic Personality Disorder. ASD is often viewed negatively, particularly when it comes from an adult. This affects relationships in all spheres – personal, professional and general. This stems from a range of factors, and can have a serious impact on the life of the person dealing with it, as well as those around them. Ask yourself, do you know someone who is constantly fishing for compliments, or feel the need for recognition in or

JRC story -The Rise !

Dear readers, Sharing story behind JRC Juju’s Reader Club ™ Mission: To Revive Book Reading Culture. Logo message : Help others heal Created as an online Club on November 5, 2020 in Covid times with the Aim of Helping others heal, helps in self-healing. Unburden your heart, mind and soul. Fill up your emotional saucer with happiness, positivity and peace. There are 620+ Online Members. This became Offline Club: November 1, 2022 with 4 founder members - Dr. Reemanshu Bansal (Juju’s Pearls), Twinkle Gupta, Disha Katia, Dr. Neha Garg in hometown, Bathinda, Punjab India with 38 members. JRC meet is on 1st Tuesday every month (Timings: 6- 7 pm) . Books of different genre are discussed. JRC launched its dream project of “JRC Mobile Library” in collaboration with IRIA Punjab (Social Wing) & Goodwill Society regd. (Respected Shri K.K. Garg Uncleji - my guide/ friend /mentor in social work.) A mobile library for children living in the slums. We have heard that books have wing