Flip over: Upside/ down

Flip over: Upside/ down

This writeup is dedicated to my buddy who relocated base three and a half years ago. A casual friendly conversation regarding, passion vs duty vs hobby lead to our sudden enlightenment (mutual! thank god). As we walk in this journey of life, we come across different people with an entirely different take on life, however, there are a few bunches who follow a path closely similar to ours- our soulmates our buddies.

Travelling is my passion. The goal is to gradually tick places off from my bucket list. So, traveling comprises a routine topic of discussion. How soon one should take a break, is a million-dollar question. Initially, planning is dependent on oneself, post-marriage, according to children,s holidays schedule and finally, again as per one wish.

My Momsie -Popsie always taught the importance of parents being in their children's childhood memories than leaving a huge bank balance for them. As in this unending pursuit of generating the bank balance, one largely compromises on the time. Think over my generation people, the importance of devoting time to self and children, for tomorrow is never promised and is not a post-dated cheque to be encashed. Life does not work on the principles of the bank. Life is happening now: it,s a current account.

Coming back to my conversation with my buddy. We were discussing how work becomes boring after a certain period of time, one needs a break from it. She differed and commented, if work is your passion, you will not get bored ever. To this, my answer was, even though I love my work (passionate), I have a traveler soul.
She said, ‘ Why don,t you think that you are traveling since it,s your passion and in between, you are taking breaks of 3-4 months of work !”
Wow ! I exclaimed what a brilliant wonderful thought. She reflected upon the idea of passion and work in an upside/down perspective.  Gosh ! I love her more for this. Life is definitely 99% how we take it : only 1 % actually happens
She said, “ Chal mil gaya ek aur idea tere blog ka!”
Thanks buddy!

I always say, “ Life mein ek Anjali zaroori hai!” way ahead of KJ and
SRK said in KKHH ( Kuch kuch hota hai in October1998)
Momsie ! I am gradually learning how to live in the moment. Love you from this world to your world: till we meet again, up there
Signing off now with my next write up ready in my thoughts
Take care,
Love,
Juju

“ Marital Curry”

“ Marital Curry”

A brief background into the origin of this title. My friends were planning a post Diwali get together. I had to decide the venue and thanks to my auto correct app, “Nariyal curry” restaurant was typed as Marital Curry. The idea for my new blogpost was born.

Festival season is waning: long wait for winters is coming to an end. Post festivals like karva chauth and ashtmi, love is afresh in air (hopefully will remain so, till it condenses and settles down. 

Ha ! Ha!).

After a certain period of time in marriage, it a curry like feel.

Adjusted so well, know ones pros and cons, rather amalgated oneself with your spouse, it tastes spicey most of the time.

Recipe of marital curry:

Main ingredients are – handful of faith, trust, love, care, respect, sacrifice, affection, warmth, compassion etc with a pinch of remorse ( optional).

Preparation time: anywhere from few months to a lifetime and beyond (for few)

Toppings: fresh romance sprinkled over the brimming curry.

Serves: Basically for 2, but the aroma affects all the people in the inner and outer circle.

Calories:  Zero ( absolutely)

P.S. Don,t keep it overnight. Fresh preparation has numerous health benefits.

Happy Diwali 

Enjoy your curry

Take Care,

Love,

Juju

Secular pixel - I am an Indian

Secular pixel - I am an Indian!!!!!!!!

A thought flashed across my mind. Are we really so embittered towards each other as the media portrays to be or it,s  an unspoken ( ? spoken) truth that media is paid these days.

One needs to decide for oneself.

While driving to my workplace, as I stopped my car at the red light, my receptionist gave me a routine call and I asked her to take time from my hairstylist.

It dawned upon me that while I have been told that I am a Hindu, my receptionist follows Sikhism, my helper who keeps my office clean is of low caste and so is the man who collects garbage, my hairstylist is a Muslim and my friends are Christians, Hindu, Sikh, Muslim, Gujarati, Marathi, Kannada, Malayali, Oriya, Kashmiri, etc and as my list grew, I could see myself as a secular pixel in this universe. When I employed them, I had looked at their credentials and never even asked their religion or caste. They have been with me in this journey for nearly two decades or more.

In those fleeting forty five seconds or so at the traffic red lights, I could visualize the people in the my real life - a glimpse of secular India.

Time to slow down and ponder …. Are we being baits to these media people? Answer is definitely in affirmative. But the real question is for how long??? Please check ……….

Just a thought before my next write up titled “Marital Curry”

Happy Diwali!

Juju!