Marks minting machine # NEET
Warriors Part 2
Disclaimer: This write-up reflects
author’s experiences regarding human psychology. Not intended to hurt anyone’s
sentiments. Reader’s discretion is respected.
Last few years have witnessed
an unprecedented rise in the marks scored in the NEET exam (National Eligibility
Entrance Test). With students targeting for full marks, there is a cut throat
competition. Important teenage years (15-18 years of adolescence) get lost
in this rat race. Students have become machines being designed to mint marks.
There is decline in emotional quotient, pyschology quotient and social
quotient. Blinded in their aim, these souls of future have forgotten to enjoy
the journey.
Every year, there is increase
in number of applicants by a lakh or more. Only few thousands or less than 5% will
get the medical seat. There are two different aspects to this. One is
qualifying the exam and other is getting a seat in a medical college of one’s
own choice. Like my Popsie says, ‘One has to look in totality. One may or may
not get what one aspires, but will definitely get what “HE” -almighty decides. “So,
the best approach is to have faith in the judgement of God. Geeta also says, “ Do
your work and don’t wish for the rewards.” I know easier said than done. But
with continuous practice, one can move an inch closer to one’s goal.
Ever since the results have
been announced, I have witnessed a spectrum of emotional states. On one hand, there
are many homes which have not smiled since then, on other hand there are a
handful who are in joyous state. Normally, the middle path is the best path.
But in this case, the students in the middle are left confused. It’s like, “Yeh,
dil mange more!” They are repenting for ticking few right choices as wrong or
not leaving enough un-attempted questions. To each one their own story. This result is just a entry ticket into the medical world. The real journey has just begun.
Now, is the time to pause,
rethink, before it’s too late. Medicine is a noble profession and one needs lot
of compassion, patience and humbleness. In the most important years of
transformation, we are pushing our gen next into this maddening race of marks.
Is it really worth it? Are we creating poster candidates for our own social
status?
Our warrior already knows where they have faltered and what were their
strong and weak points. Is it really that important to highlight or make it
obvious? At times, best approach is a non- interfering approach and let the
child come out of it on their own. (Please bear in mind the emotional status of your child.)
Concluding with a humble appeal: Please celebrate and cherish your NEET warrior right now. Time will
fly, the wounds will heal, what will remain with children is the memory of the
behavior of their parents and teachers in this important, life transforming/ altering moments of their
lives.
Let’s help each other in creating
loving memories and reminding ourselves- This moment (happy or sad) will fly
away soon. Be your own pilot.
Congratulations to each and every soul reading
this and sharing this.
Love,
Juju