13th Book # Nyra Volume II

Hello readers, 

Please find below, listing link of my 13th book, Nyra Volume II 

https://www.ukiyotoindia.com/product-page/nyra-volume-ii

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Juju' s Pearls 

12th Book # Petals & Chocolate Volume III

Hello readers, 

Please find below link of my 12th book Petals & Chocolate Volume III 

https://www.ukiyotoindia.com/product-page/petals-chocolates-volume-iii

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Juju' s Pearls 

Golden Book Awards 2023

 Dear readers,

Feeling happy and humbled as I share link of my photos & video of Golden Book Award. This is a one of the most prestigious Literary Awards.  I share frame with Deepak Chopra, Jeff Kinney, Ruskin Bond, J.K. Rowling, Gaur Gopal Das, Ashneer Grover, Namita Thapar, Deepak Bajaj and many other literary giants. 

Here's the link

https://photos.app.goo.gl/E6KtYG4sRSqDfTSV9

https://photos.app.goo.gl/E6KtYG4sRSqDfTSV9

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Juju

14th Book # Dear Mom Volume II

Dear readers,

Happy to share my 14th Book Dear Mom Volume II is live now. This will be placed in the prestigious oldest world book fair - Frankfurt Buchmesse Book Fair, October 18- October 22, 2023.

Availability in all formats: https://www.ukiyotoindia.com/product-page/dear-mom-volume-ii

This book features my short story as the first story. This is a concise biography about my mother in 13 chapters. I have tried my best to do justice and give you an insight.

Do order your copy today.

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Juju.

Keep your heart healthy & happy

Dear readers, 

Sharing few points from my experiences to keep one's heart healthy and happy.

1) Take onus of your words, behaviour and actions. Always remember your vibrations reach before you.

2) The most precious thing is expecting transparency ( especially for those living in joint families). This is a virtue off evolved souls.

3) For couples, do not burden your spouse with expectations. One person cannot do justice to all roles. For example, spouse may be a loving parent but not a compassionate life partner or vice versa. Maybe a hard worker with very good income but time availability issue and so on.

4) Enjoy your family time. Do not cut from your family time ( unless it's an emergency).

5) Always praise your spouse and children. Be vocal about positive, empowering words. The world has enough of critics.

6) While gifting, remind yourself, how will you feel if someone gifted the same to you.

"No gift" is far better than a bad/poor gift. The value of gift reflects one's own thoughts and standard, contrary to popular belief of what the other person deserves.

7) Lead a debt free, guilt free life. Don't waste your time and energy on, " What will people say? " Rather focus on, " What will my family say?  " No one has seen "those four" people whose job is to spy on you. In today's world, you can consider yourself lucky if you can have four people in your last journey. 

8) There are always 3 sides of a story. Yours, mine and the truth.

9) Everyone has the same 24 hours. It's always about prioritizing.

10) Relish and cherish your family and relations. Create beautiful memories. Many a times in relations, logic doesn't work, so follow your heart.

11) The most important lesson is - Keep two important connections secure - between brain & heart and brain& tongue This is the golden key to a happy, satisfied, comfortable life.

12) Do express your emotions while the person is in this world. Don't hold back for the time when they cross over to other realm. 

13) Remember, you die only once. And, you get a chance to live everyday. Embrace life with arms wide open.

Love,

 Juju 

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Author Talkshow

Hello Readers, 

Click on this link to listen to my Impromptu Author Talkshow at Lit Business Meet, Vivanta Taj New Delhi 26th March, 2023

https://photos.app.goo.gl/5LySh48porZ8sifq7

https://photos.app.goo.gl/5LySh48porZ8sifq7

Love,

Juju 

Insta link of WBF 2023

Dear readers,

Please find insta link of pictures at World book fair, 2023.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CphQraUSy8G/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

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Juju' s Pearls

Author interview Insta

Hello readers,

Sharing link of my author interview on Instagram. Do click on link, like and share.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CpsAjQly0Rd/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

https://www.instagram.com/p/CpsAjQly0Rd/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

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Juju 

WBF2023#Video Clip# PR coverage

Dear Readers,

Please find below the link for the video clip for PR Coverage at the World Book Fair, 25th Feb -5th March, 2023, Pragati Maidan, New Delhi. 

https://www.facebook.com/ukiyotopublishing/videos/170127719131790

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Juju' s Pearls 

Reader’s Choice Series # Children settled abroad- Part 2

Reader’s Choice Series # Children settled abroad- Part 2

Disclaimer:  Sensitive topic with aim of creating awareness. Any resemblance to any person or situation is purely incidental. Reader’s discretion is respected.

Preface: I had gone to meet my colleague to discuss a medical case. The conversation that followed was about children leaving their parents and homeland for greener pastures, settling abroad. Their parents are left behind waiting for them to return.

Every person wishes for a life based on his/her own choices. Where there is a choice, there is no place of regret. This write up request is by a special reader who has been a witness of my journey in literary world. In relationships, it’s always about understanding the other person’s perspective. There are numerous reasons as to why children settle abroad. In many cases, children want their parents to be with them too. However, parents do not want to leave their comfort zone. Do not blame your children for leaving their motherland. Parents don’t play victim card or go in sympathy mode.

Many of you may have different views, all opinions are respected. We are trying to analyze and understand this. Like one of my friend’s child says, “Maa, don’t start off with your Baghbaan.” (For those who are unaware, Baghbaan is an Amitabh Bachchan starrer hit movie where children don’t care for their parents in their post retirement phase and misbehave). For ease of understanding, I am sharing few key points for both parents as well as children. One cannot generalize, exceptions will be there. Be wise to pick, choose, edit, delete and add (T&C apply).

For Parents:

1) Children observe and absorb our actions more than our words.

2) Always praise your child and avoid criticism. Never make your child feel incompetent or small.

3) Refrain from these emotional blackmail statements,  “I am your parent, I know the best, ” “ I have done so many sacrifices for you”, “I have worked very hard to provide you a good education and environment ,” “I have built up so many assets that you need not work,” etc.

4)  How you behave with your parents will lay a foundation of how your children will behave with you in your old age.

5)  Remember you are not doing any favor; you are doing your duty as a parent.

6)  One of the most important thing is (it’s for men) -how you treat your wife. The best way to love your children is by loving and respecting their mother.

7)  Listen to your child, understand their needs and support them.

8)  The asset you are planning to leave after your death, please give them when they need. As parent, you are failing in your duty, if your child takes a loan and you just sit and talk about your empire. If they can’t use when they need, it’s of little use afterwards too.

9)  Stop sharing your success stories only, do share your mistakes and failures too.

10) Most important, keep the communication path open. Do not go overboard.

11) Prepare them for the road ahead. Do not prepare the road for them.

12) Once in a while, pause! Remember you were once their age,  how your parents behaved and the impressions you made and carried in life.

13) Have faith in your upbringing and trust your children. Don’t jump to conclusions.

14) Don’t feel insecure and be wise enough to step down from your throne at the right time and crown your Prince/Princess.

For Children

1)  Respect your parents and express your love on regular basis. As you grow into an adult, your parents are marching towards old age.

2)  Involve your parents in your plans and activities.

3)  Always keep in mind that your parents are your well wishers, most safe and secure space (exceptions are always there).

4)  Help them understand your decisions and make appropriate arrangements for them while you are away. Build a secure circle of friends and neighbours in case of emergency.

5) Never ever stop talking to your parents. Keep the communication channel open always.

6)  Make sure your children connect with their grandparents. Ensure enough calls – phone / video and physical trips to hometown (as per your financial strength).

7) Do call them regularly as these calls act like immunity boosters and escalate their self-confidence and esteem.

8) Remember, soul never ages, only the body ages. Make them feel important and never let them feel redundant. Ask your mother to cook your favorite meals/ tea once in a while. Ask your father to get your favourite things from market ( just like when you were a child)

9)  Most important- Hug your parents in a tight embrace. Such hugs have a positive effect on their cardiac health. That feeling of hearing your child’s heart beating close to your heart is priceless.

10) Visit them while they are healthy and create memories to be cherished.

There is no rule book as it varies from person to person.

My summation is –If your child plans to settle abroad, please support and don’t make them feel guilty.  Support them in living their dreams.

 

Love,

Juju