Book 22# Teenage Love Story Volume 1

 Hello Readers, 

My title Teenage Love Story Volume I is now live and available for purchase.

Sharing link 

https://www.ukiyotoindia.com/product-page/teenage-love-story-volume-i

Love, 

Juju 

ASD -The Ignored Ongoing Pandemic!

Attention Seeking Disorder!

(The Ignored Ongoing Pandemic)

 

For many people, receiving some level of attention – to a greater or lesser degree, depends on one’s individual personality – is a basically pleasurable experience. In general terms, being noticed can instinctively make people feel good, as it provides us with validation. However, when a person constantly craves the attention of others, and that need is affecting their thoughts, decisions and behaviour, they may be dealing with Attention Seeking Disorder (ASD), a part of spectrum of Histrionic Personality Disorder.

ASD is often viewed negatively, particularly when it comes from an adult. This affects relationships in all spheres – personal, professional and general. This stems from a range of factors, and can have a serious impact on the life of the person dealing with it, as well as those around them.

Ask yourself, do you know someone who is constantly fishing for compliments, or feel the need for recognition in order to be happy? Have you noticed something in your own behaviour that made you think, ‘do I have ASD?  It’s important to identify the red flags before it becomes problematic.  Let’s take a closer look at what ASD is -

In adults, Attention Seeking Disorder is defined as excessive and repeated attempts by an individual to make themselves the centre of attention; in other words, when a person constantly tries to direct other people’s focus toward themselves. It can be common for people around the individual to find them egotistical, an exhibitionist, or ‘a show-off’. This behaviour may occur consciously or unconsciously, depending on the individual nature of the case, but almost always manifest in efforts to gain admiration or validation in some way.

ASD is characterised by having its motivation rooted in jealousy, loneliness, or low levels of self-esteem. This is generally as a result of imbalanced or unhealthy emotional state, and they constantly feel the urge to receive attention and validation. This behaviour over an extended period can damage or destroy intimate relationships, and can cause rapid mood swings and emotional shifts.

Examples of Attention Seeking Behaviour

Though they are always driven at gaining the attention of other people, the behaviours associated with ASD can take many forms. Sometimes, it is clear to see. For example, a person making direct and inflammatory comments; at other times, the behaviour can be more subtle or difficult to identify. Sharing few common behaviours.

1)    Making deliberately provocative comments, with the person appearing to desire to make other people uncomfortable, or ‘push the boundary’

2)    Behaving in a controversial way, perhaps overt promiscuity or blatant exhibitionism, or other things that may be seen as ‘showing off’

3)    Constantly dragging the topic or focus of conversation back onto themselves

4)    Frequently boasting about their own actions, possessions, wealth or experiences.

5)    Behaving dramatically or tending to overblow negative experiences into complete disasters.

6)    Constantly blaming the other person for lack of empathy, understanding, love, care and making them feel responsible (akin to gas lighting and narcissist trait)

However, one must remember that some amount of attention seeking behaviour is normal, natural and a prime tendency. Humans are social creatures and a desire for validation is a natural emotional urge.

To be continued Part 2………

Till then identify the red flags.

Love,

Juju

JRC story -The Rise !

Dear readers,

Sharing story behind JRC Juju’s Reader Club ™

Mission: To Revive Book Reading Culture.

Logo message: Help others heal

Created as an online Club on November 5, 2020 in Covid times with the Aim of Helping others heal, helps in self-healing. Unburden your heart, mind and soul. Fill up your emotional saucer with happiness, positivity and peace. There are 620+ Online Members.

This became Offline Club: November 1, 2022 with 4 founder members - Dr. Reemanshu Bansal (Juju’s Pearls), Twinkle Gupta, Disha Katia, Dr. Neha Garg in hometown, Bathinda, Punjab India with 38 members. JRC meet is on 1st Tuesday every month (Timings: 6- 7 pm). Books of different genre are discussed.

JRC launched its dream project of “JRC Mobile Library” in collaboration with IRIA Punjab (Social Wing) & Goodwill Society regd. (Respected Shri K.K. Garg Uncleji- my guide/ friend /mentor in social work.)

A mobile library for children living in the slums. We have heard that books have wings. Now books have feet. Now Books reach the slums via Mobile Library. This runs every Thursday and has completed its 15^th visit run today. During each visit, some eatables like biscuits/ fruit -apple are given to children who are studying in the mobile evening school and are eager to issue books. With almighty blessings, children are taking very good care of the books and all books have been returned so far in good condition. There are 3 evening mobile schools under JRC wings.

You can help by donating kindergarten books/ picture books.

JRC Theme for the year 2023-24

“Let’s ignite the minds: before we light the diyas.”  

Be a part of the JRC movement!

Love,

Juju

 

 

AudioBook 19# The Echoes of Ages Volume 1

 Dear readers,

Please find the Google Play link to your Audio book which is now live.

You may share the same among your network accordingly ahead.

Title Name: Short stories by Juju's Pearls

Author Name: Juju's Pearls ( Dr. Reemanshu Bansal)

Audio Book Link on Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/audiobooks/details?id=AQAAAECShnTG9M

Love 

Juju

AudioBook17# Stories from India season 4 Volume 1

 Dear readers ,

Please find the Google Play link to your Audio book which is now live.

You may share the same among your network accordingly ahead.

Title Name: Short stories by Juju's Pearls ( 4 stories)

Author Name: Juju's Pearls ( Dr. Reemanshu Bansal)

Audio Book Link on Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/audiobooks/details?id=AQAAAECSBgBGgM

Love

Juju

AudioBook18 # Those Broken Whispers Volume 1

 Dear readers ,

Please find the Google Play link to your Audio book which is now live.

You may share the same among your network accordingly ahead.

Title Name: Those Broken Whispers Volume 1 

Author Name: Juju's Pearls ( Dr. Reemanshu Bansal) 

Audio Book Link on Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/audiobooks/details?id=AQAAAECS8CWwpM

 Love, 

Juju 

Book 21# The Character Sketch

Dear readers, 

My latest work " The Character Sketch " is live. Sharing link for my latest work. Available as a Paperback, Hardback, Dust jackets. This will be released in Comic Con , Chennai , Feb 17th/18th, 2024.

https://www.ukiyotoindia.com/product-page/the-character-sketch-with-tiny-tales

https://www.ukiyotoindia.com/product-page/the-character-sketch-with-tiny-tales

Thanks & regards

Juju.